Daily Spousal Health Check Up

Daily Spousal Relationship Health Check
Allow the Holy Spirit to show you His thoughts of your actions today. You’re spouse may have insight you’ve missed. Don’t use this to take offense at you’re spouse’s actions.

Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life. Psalm 139:23-24 (New Living Translation)

LOVE IS...
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. 13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.


Have I been patient with my
spouse today?

Have I been kind to my
spouse today?

Have I been petty about
anything with my spouse
today?

Have I put my needs ahead of
my spouse’s need today?

Have I been stubborn
towards my spouse today?

Have I been rude with my
spouse today?

Have I put more effort in
myself than I shared with my
spouse today?

Have I been easily angry at
my spouse today?

Have I been passive
aggressive with my spouse
today?

Have I reveled if my spouse
has been humiliated today?

Have I celebrated with my
spouse today?

Have I protected my spouse
and our relationship today?

Have I shown trust in my
spouse and their decisions
today?

Have I shown hope for our
future today?

Have I optimistically
persevered today?

Daily Spousal Relationship Health Check
Allow the Holy Spirit to show you His thoughts of your actions today. You’re spouse may have insight you’ve missed. Don’t use this to take offense at you’re spouse’s actions.

Heavenly Father,
Forgive me for not showing the love you define to my spouse
today, specifically in the areas of
_________________________________________________

Thank you Holy Spirit for reminding me of it now.
Show me how to move past saying “I’m sorry” to the point of
real change. Help me to admit my sin and my faults to my
spouse. Keep careless, hurtful, cruel, vindictive, and painful
words and actions from coming from me. As we submit to
one another out of reverence for Christ, make us each other’s
best friend and biggest cheerleaders. Help me (provide
security for my wife/respect my husband) today and always.
Help me to nurture the destiny you’ve entrusted to my
spouse.

Compliments of Trevor Lund @revtrev
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